Dr Pam Spurr

Oh dear, one partner's turn on is another's turn off...

Haven't we all been there - been with a partner that did something that turned us off? Or sometimes we’re with a partner who does one thing that puts us off ...but other things that turn us on. That's the dilemma I've chosen for ‘agony aunt day’ today.

A woman calling herself Cindy has got in touch about the way her partner turns her off before sex - not what any of us want to do!

TODAY’S TIP: Always start afresh when you're with a new partner - don't assume that something that your ex loved is going to be loved by your new partner.

The greatest lovers are those who treat each new partner like an adventure - they're going to start on adventure and don't know what's around each corner.

Thanks as always for all your e-mails, happy Thursday, Pamx