A bit of hanky-spanky....
It's Thursday [where does the time go?] and that means it's National Agony Aunt Day - I'm very thankful for all your e-mails and wish I could answer every single one.
I've answered Caroline’s about her boyfriend liking to spank her because as you can imagine this sort of question has come up repeatedly in the last year...although they've been together since before 50 shades hit the shops.
Check out my advice to her on my homepage at "dilemma I've answered this week".
TODAY’S TIP: I've said it before but I will say it again - if you're sleeping with someone, giving them your body, you should be able to let them know what you do and don't like. People jump into bed before they know how to communicate with each other - that's your choice - but remember the sex you have will be far better than know how to express your needs... don't be shy!
Take care of yourself, Pamx