Are you making assumptions about someone?
We make all types of assumptions about other people - classic stereotyping that gives us often false confidence that we can guess someone's motives. And we certainly make the assumption that men are shallow creatures only interested in the way a woman looks and how sexy she is. But an MSN UK survey found that actually the things that put off men have little to do with looks - and if he's not can be attracted to you it's probably nothing to do with your finger, etc.
I've written an article that's gone live on MSN UK Him channel about this. I think it's good news and helps break the myth that men only think about one thing.
TODAY’S TIP: thinking about this a good tip is to go into getting to know someone with an open mind. It's easy for women to assume he's going to be after one thing - maybe he is but maybe he isn't!
Men also make these assumptions - and in my years as a date coach I've been told repeatedly that men worry women are after a larger pay packet - let alone something else that's larger!
The lesson from this? Let someone's behaviour and actions guide your decisions about them rather than assuming you know what they're like before you really know them.
On to horrific developments in the news it's more than chilling to see the parents of six children who died in the fire arrested on suspected murder - it seems unbelievable. However as we've seen with past cases they can't be tried in the media - none of us know the truth and it will only come out in court.
May those poor precious children rest in peace.
Make today count, take care of yourself, Pamx